Example of a 10-Step Accountability Tool Used In Training
For Insights and Greater Accountability, Participants Ask Themselves the Following Questions
What do I want to be RIGHT about? In other words, what do I expect to gain by making the other person wrong?
How have I set myself up for this frustration/hurt.
What did I know before going into this situation? What were my “gut instincts” or “red flags”? What have I been pretending not to know.
What response have I stimulated in the other person?
What do I really want from this situation and/or person? (Is this outcome realistic?)
What will having that outcome get for me?
What is my positive intent for wanting this?
Is it under my control or is it dependent upon another person changing? (If it’s not under my control then it’s probably not feasible I need to reevaluate my desired outcome.)
What time frames are involved in obtaining what I desire?
How? When? Where? Do I want this outcome? What other means have I considered?